For many teenage girls, feeling unsupported can be an overwhelming reality. Whether it's lack of support at home or struggling to find genuine connections elsewhere, the impact can be profound. In a recent episode of the MindShift Power Podcast, host Fatima Bey and licensed therapist Erica Bess tackle this crucial issue head-on, offering practical guidance for teens seeking real support.
Support isn't just about having someone to talk to—it's about having people who help you grow without judgment or fear of backlash. As Bess explains, the teenage years are particularly challenging as you're navigating the space between childhood and adulthood. Having reliable support during this time is crucial for healthy development.
Not all support is created equal. Bad support often looks like:
Good support, on the other hand, includes people who:
If support isn't available at home, there are still many options:
One of the most significant risks of feeling unsupported is settling for less than you deserve. This might mean:
As Fatima Bey emphasizes in the episode, "You, young lady, are a diamond. Do not allow yourself to be treated like a pebble." It's essential to understand that support exists, even if you haven't found it yet. The key is to keep looking until you find people who truly build you up and encourage your growth.
Don't expect perfection from support systems, but do expect them to help you become better. Good support should leave you feeling clearer, stronger, and more capable than before.
If you're feeling unsupported: