From 'I'm Not Smart' to College Success: What Coaching Did For Me (Episode 76)

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The Transformative Power of Coaching: Janiya’s Journey


From Doubt to Determination: Meet Janiyah

In this episode of the MindShift Power Podcast, I had the privilege of reconnecting with a young woman whose journey has been nothing short of transformative. Janiya, now 19 and a college student, reflects on how her life has drastically changed since we first met two years ago. Back then, she struggled with self-worth and saw no future for herself. Today, she’s a beacon of intelligence and determination, pursuing a career in law.


The Turning Point: Discovering Self-Worth

Janiya’s journey began with a simple yet profound question: “What do you like about yourself?” At the time, she had no answer. Through our coaching sessions, we worked together to unearth her self-worth. She learned to embrace affirmations like “I love myself” and “I am so precious.” Initially, these words felt foreign and uncomfortable, but over time, they became a daily mantra that transformed her self-perception.


Overcoming Toxic Relationships

Janiya’s past included a toxic relationship that eroded her self-esteem. She believed she was nothing without her partner, who was mentally abusive. Through our coaching, she learned to recognize her value and the importance of self-love. She broke free from the toxic cycle and now understands that she deserves healthy, supportive relationships.


Achieving Academic Success

One of the most remarkable aspects of Janiyah’s journey is her academic success. She went from believing she was not “built for college” to being a proud criminal justice major, with aspirations to become a family attorney. Her story is a testament to the power of coaching in unlocking potential and paving the way for dreams once thought unattainable.


Embracing the Future with Confidence

Today, Janiya sees a future filled with success and happiness. She is actively working towards her goals, unafraid to tackle the challenges ahead. Her story serves as an inspiration for many young women who feel trapped by their circumstances. Janiyah’s transformation is a powerful reminder that with the right support and mindset, anything is possible.


MindShifting Moment: Embracing Your True Self

As we reflect on Janiya’s journey, I urge all young women to ask themselves: Do you know who you truly are? Do you recognize your worth? If you’re struggling with self-doubt or feeling lost, remember that you are not alone. Seek support, embrace affirmations, and allow yourself to grow into the person you were meant to be.

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